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Thursday, May 5, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: Do You Limit the Sweets?

Holidays like Easter provide plenty of sugary treats. What do you do with them all?

We're finally at the end of what Denise Lee's kids call "sugar season." And I know I've tallied so much candy over the past few months that I have an entire table in my home that holds everything from Peeps and jellybeans to Sixlets and Dove chocolates. It's an exercise in self control to not indulge every day. How do you, as a parent, limit sugary consumption (or do you)? Do you hide the candy? Get rid of it? And do you resist sugary urges to set a positive example for your children (as difficult as it may be!)? Please share your stories in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will offer their thoughts too.

TP

8:57 am on Wednesday, May 11, 2011

We try to keep things in balance, but when a big candy holiday comes aroud there is going to be some gorging. My kids are very stubborn (they must get it from their father) and if something is forbidden they will fight to the death for it. It's really safer for everyone to have their splurge and move on. You can bet that meals are going to be a little healthier those days and there won't be many …   more ›

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Does Your Family Prepare for Emergencies?

Do you have a natural disaster family plan and emergency kit?

In light of the recent tornado that tore through Lambert-St. Louis International Airport and the surrounding communities, we thought we'd bring up the topic of emergency preparedness for this week's Moms Talk Q&A feature. I won't forget the lesson taught in my 10th-grade physical science class. Mr. Floyd Koehler offered us extra credit if we assembled emergency kits with our families. My kit had flashlights, batteries, water, granola bars and, most importantly, cans and cans of Spaghettios (I'm sure I made room for first aid supplies too). Does your family have an emergency kit? If so, what was it like putting the kit together and what supplies did you include? What other emergency plans did you make with your family? Please share your …

Becky Slatin

9:35 pm on Thursday, April 28, 2011

We actually do have an emergency kit that my mother gave each of her children for Christmas 1999 to prepare for the millennium and then updated it for post-9/11. It's probably due for another update. We do have a battery-operated radio, lantern and flashlights in our basement that we've put to use multiple times during power outages. After the latest storms here in St. Louis and the devastation …   more ›

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Does Your Family Stay Physically Active?

With so many families constantly on-the-go, what do you to make time for physical activity?

Between school, sports, extracurriculars and Xbox, kids might sometimes forget about making time for physical activity, even if we all recognize the importance of exercise. What do you do as a parent to encourage physical activity? How do you make the time? And, most importantly, what tips can you share for other moms and dads in the community? Please jump in and offer your thoughts in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will share their stories too. And if you missed last week's Moms Talk Q&A, we talked about what shocks parents in today's society.

Denise Lee

10:25 pm on Wednesday, April 20, 2011

We like walking. Actually our dog Koa likes it when we take him walking. The nature trails rank ten plus tail wags. Sometimes we see an interesting critter (to chase) like a groundhog or a fox. Although we haven't seen any yet, some of our neighbors have seen deer in the woods. Koa is hopeful for an encounter. In the summer time you will find us all at the Brentwood Swim Club. An evening swim is …   more ›

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: What Shocks You as a Parent?

And how do you address the situation with your children?

Today is far different from the good ol' days and parents must address new family issues each day, whether it's modern technologies, new lifestyles or something different. What has shocked you as a parent? Do your children do or say anything that makes you feel like kids today are very different from your days as a child? How do you handle these situations? Please jump in and offer your thoughts in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will share their stories too. And if you missed last week's Moms Talk Q&A, we talked about how peer pressure affects both kids and parents.

TP

3:27 pm on Thursday, April 14, 2011

Whether you're a parent or not, life is just shocking. * It shocks me that the little blobs of joy I carried home from the hospital became such complex thinkers and independent little people overnight. * It shocks me when adults would rather sit on the sidelines and critique those trying to make a difference than put a little skin in the game and lend a hand. * It shocks me every time I read an …   more ›

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Does Peer Pressure Affect Children and Parents?

And how do you approach the subject with your kids?

We live in a culture that places value in fitting in. Most kids like to feel accepted by their peers, but the same is true for parents as well. What kinds of peer pressure do your kids experience and how do you talk to them about it? And do you feel peer pressure as a parent to have your kids participate in specific activities or act a certain way? We'd love to hear your thoughts. Please jump in and share your stories in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will offer their wisdom too. And if you missed last week's Moms Talk Q&A, we talked about how families discuss major headline disasters, like in Japan or Libya.

Becky Slatin

5:47 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011

Peer pressure is everywhere no matter how old you are. I love the messages Victoria shares with her children. I’ve tried to teach my own child to treat others with an open heart and appreciate our differences. All we can do as parents is set a good example for our children. It’s OK to let them know that even as an adult you some times feel like you’re wearing the wrong clothes, don’t have the …   more ›

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Does Your Family Talk About Disasters in the News?

And how do you approach tough subjects with your kids?

With news coverage focusing on issues like the recent earthquake in Japan and military action in Libya, parents must decide how to approach sensitive subjects with their children. How much—if at all—do you talk to your kids about these types of world events? How much can you say to keep them informed without scaring them? We'd love to hear your thoughts. Please jump in and share your stories in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will offer their wisdom too. And if you missed last week's discussion, we talked about what age is appropriate to talk about sex with your children.

TP

9:33 am on Thursday, March 31, 2011

Since our kids range from 5 to 14, our responses, discussions and converstations cover a broad area as well. For the younger one, who is also our most empathetic, the coversations about what happened are very factual but high level. Then, knowing that on the heels of her concern for others is fear for those she loves, we talk about how we can help those that were hurt and ways we keep our family …   more ›

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: When Do You Talk to Kids About Sex?

What age is appropriate?

The birds and the bees. As difficult as it may be, it's a subject that every family must talk about. When should parents start talking to their children about sex? Does it depend on the parent? On the child? Maybe you don't talk about it at all? We'd love to hear your thoughts. Please jump in and share your stories in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will offer their wisdom too. And if you missed last week's discussion, we talked about how many extracurriculars are good for children.

Denise Lee

11:32 pm on Wednesday, March 23, 2011

When I was pregnant with our son, our 4 year-old daughter asked how the baby would get out of my tummy. We explained the process using terms a child would understand and without a lot of graphic detail but with perhaps too much information. Our daughter looked at me incredulously and said "You're kidding?!" Clearly it was a case of TMI (too much information). Like TP, we've always let the kids …   more ›

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Important Are Grades in Your Home?

Do you demand perfect grades from your child or are grades less important than other things?

Whether we're in the classroom or in the workplace, we're constantly rated and ranked based on our performance. But what do these ratings really mean? And for families, how important are grades? Do you demand perfect grades from your child or are grades less important than other things? Our Moms Council shares their personal stories below, and I encourage you to ask, answer and share in the comments box below. Tonya Powell I grew up in an area, and maybe even a time, where academic success just wasn’t a huge focus. Sure, we were all pushed to pass our classes and you couldn’t play sports without a C average, but there was no real emphasis. I think this was especially true for girls. You were expected to pass but not pushed to excel. I can …

BarbieJo

11:33 pm on Thursday, March 10, 2011

I find that I do demand too much from my child. I was a straight A student. I got the special card tickets, I excelled in school yet never bought homework home. This confused my Mom, but she did not care as long as I got good grades. Now as a parent, I find today's schools confusing. My son is 10. His grades are not given in the universal terms of A's or B's, but satisfactory or not. What does …   more ›

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Do You Choose a Summer Camp?

With so many options, and so many price levels, how do you choose a summer camp for your child and why?

Welcome to Moms Talk, where our Moms Council of experts and smart moms takes your questions, gives advice and shares solutions. We invite you and your circle of friends to help build a community of support for mothers and their families right here in Maplewood-Brentwood. So, grab a cup of coffee and settle in as we start the conversation today with the question: How do you deal with bullies? The Moms Council offers responses below, and we encourage you to jump in with your experiences, too. Becky Slatin Looking for the right summer camps for my child has become an annual mission for our family, beginning every January. With so many to choose from at all price ranges, and with some applications as long as a college application, it can …

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Do You Deal With Bullies?

From the perspective of a parent, identifying bullying behavior can be tough. But once you do, then what?

Welcome to Moms Talk, where our Moms Council of experts and smart moms takes your questions, gives advice and shares solutions. We invite you and your circle of friends to help build a community of support for mothers and their families right here in Maplewood-Brentwood. So, grab a cup of coffee and settle in as we start the conversation today with the question: How do you deal with bullies? The Moms Council offers responses below, and we encourage you to jump in with your experiences, too. Denise Lee Dealing with bullying is tough — really tough.  My natural response with my kids is to go into hyper-protective-mom-mode with sonic speed. But my natural response may not help the situation and may in fact exacerbate it. So I have to navigate…

Katrina Sommer

4:56 pm on Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Bullies are everywhere, but that does not mean their behavior should be tolerated. When we were growing up it was easy to spot (and avoid) bullies, but today our children deal with "faceless" bullies on-line. Bullies get to hide behind a screen name and don't have to actually face the people they intimidate or tease. Parents and teachers need to have candid discussions with their children and …   more ›

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