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Denise Lee

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Does Your Family Prepare for Emergencies?

Do you have a natural disaster family plan and emergency kit?

In light of the recent tornado that tore through Lambert-St. Louis International Airport and the surrounding communities, we thought we'd bring up the topic of emergency preparedness for this week's Moms Talk Q&A feature. I won't forget the lesson taught in my 10th-grade physical science class. Mr. Floyd Koehler offered us extra credit if we assembled emergency kits with our families. My kit had flashlights, batteries, water, granola bars and, most importantly, cans and cans of Spaghettios (I'm sure I made room for first aid supplies too). Does your family have an emergency kit? If so, what was it like putting the kit together and what supplies did you include? What other emergency plans did you make with your family? Please share your …

Becky Slatin

9:35 pm on Thursday, April 28, 2011

We actually do have an emergency kit that my mother gave each of her children for Christmas 1999 to prepare for the millennium and then updated it for post-9/11. It's probably due for another update. We do have a battery-operated radio, lantern and flashlights in our basement that we've put to use multiple times during power outages. After the latest storms here in St. Louis and the devastation …   more ›

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Does Your Family Stay Physically Active?

With so many families constantly on-the-go, what do you to make time for physical activity?

Between school, sports, extracurriculars and Xbox, kids might sometimes forget about making time for physical activity, even if we all recognize the importance of exercise. What do you do as a parent to encourage physical activity? How do you make the time? And, most importantly, what tips can you share for other moms and dads in the community? Please jump in and offer your thoughts in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will share their stories too. And if you missed last week's Moms Talk Q&A, we talked about what shocks parents in today's society.

Denise Lee

10:25 pm on Wednesday, April 20, 2011

We like walking. Actually our dog Koa likes it when we take him walking. The nature trails rank ten plus tail wags. Sometimes we see an interesting critter (to chase) like a groundhog or a fox. Although we haven't seen any yet, some of our neighbors have seen deer in the woods. Koa is hopeful for an encounter. In the summer time you will find us all at the Brentwood Swim Club. An evening swim is …   more ›

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: What Shocks You as a Parent?

And how do you address the situation with your children?

Today is far different from the good ol' days and parents must address new family issues each day, whether it's modern technologies, new lifestyles or something different. What has shocked you as a parent? Do your children do or say anything that makes you feel like kids today are very different from your days as a child? How do you handle these situations? Please jump in and offer your thoughts in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will share their stories too. And if you missed last week's Moms Talk Q&A, we talked about how peer pressure affects both kids and parents.

TP

3:27 pm on Thursday, April 14, 2011

Whether you're a parent or not, life is just shocking. * It shocks me that the little blobs of joy I carried home from the hospital became such complex thinkers and independent little people overnight. * It shocks me when adults would rather sit on the sidelines and critique those trying to make a difference than put a little skin in the game and lend a hand. * It shocks me every time I read an …   more ›

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Does Peer Pressure Affect Children and Parents?

And how do you approach the subject with your kids?

We live in a culture that places value in fitting in. Most kids like to feel accepted by their peers, but the same is true for parents as well. What kinds of peer pressure do your kids experience and how do you talk to them about it? And do you feel peer pressure as a parent to have your kids participate in specific activities or act a certain way? We'd love to hear your thoughts. Please jump in and share your stories in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will offer their wisdom too. And if you missed last week's Moms Talk Q&A, we talked about how families discuss major headline disasters, like in Japan or Libya.

Becky Slatin

5:47 pm on Friday, April 8, 2011

Peer pressure is everywhere no matter how old you are. I love the messages Victoria shares with her children. I’ve tried to teach my own child to treat others with an open heart and appreciate our differences. All we can do as parents is set a good example for our children. It’s OK to let them know that even as an adult you some times feel like you’re wearing the wrong clothes, don’t have the …   more ›

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: When Do You Talk to Kids About Sex?

What age is appropriate?

The birds and the bees. As difficult as it may be, it's a subject that every family must talk about. When should parents start talking to their children about sex? Does it depend on the parent? On the child? Maybe you don't talk about it at all? We'd love to hear your thoughts. Please jump in and share your stories in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will offer their wisdom too. And if you missed last week's discussion, we talked about how many extracurriculars are good for children.

Denise Lee

11:32 pm on Wednesday, March 23, 2011

When I was pregnant with our son, our 4 year-old daughter asked how the baby would get out of my tummy. We explained the process using terms a child would understand and without a lot of graphic detail but with perhaps too much information. Our daughter looked at me incredulously and said "You're kidding?!" Clearly it was a case of TMI (too much information). Like TP, we've always let the kids …   more ›

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Many Extracurricular Activities Are Good for Children?

How many do your children experience at one time? What have been the most rewarding activities?

Last week, we talked about how important grades are to a student's success. Some parents believe grades aren't always indicative of a student's effort, while others won't settle for anything other than A. This week's discussion is a good follow-up to last week's. How many extracurricular activities are good for children? How many do your children experience at one time? What have been the most rewarding activities? Please jump in and share your stories in the comments box below. Our Moms Council members will share their thoughts too.

TP

11:27 pm on Thursday, March 17, 2011

In our house, our activities run in seasons, just like the sports my two oldest boys have played since they were fairly small. They have played baseball, soccer and basketball forever. Now that the oldest is in high school, he has dropped basketball but has added more "hanging out with the guys" and will be wanting to add a job soon so he can save for a really cool car. My younger son (11) playes…   more ›

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Important Are Grades in Your Home?

Do you demand perfect grades from your child or are grades less important than other things?

Whether we're in the classroom or in the workplace, we're constantly rated and ranked based on our performance. But what do these ratings really mean? And for families, how important are grades? Do you demand perfect grades from your child or are grades less important than other things? Our Moms Council shares their personal stories below, and I encourage you to ask, answer and share in the comments box below. Tonya Powell I grew up in an area, and maybe even a time, where academic success just wasn’t a huge focus. Sure, we were all pushed to pass our classes and you couldn’t play sports without a C average, but there was no real emphasis. I think this was especially true for girls. You were expected to pass but not pushed to excel. I can …

BarbieJo

11:33 pm on Thursday, March 10, 2011

I find that I do demand too much from my child. I was a straight A student. I got the special card tickets, I excelled in school yet never bought homework home. This confused my Mom, but she did not care as long as I got good grades. Now as a parent, I find today's schools confusing. My son is 10. His grades are not given in the universal terms of A's or B's, but satisfactory or not. What does …   more ›

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Do You Choose a Summer Camp?

With so many options, and so many price levels, how do you choose a summer camp for your child and why?

Welcome to Moms Talk, where our Moms Council of experts and smart moms takes your questions, gives advice and shares solutions. We invite you and your circle of friends to help build a community of support for mothers and their families right here in Maplewood-Brentwood. So, grab a cup of coffee and settle in as we start the conversation today with the question: How do you deal with bullies? The Moms Council offers responses below, and we encourage you to jump in with your experiences, too. Becky Slatin Looking for the right summer camps for my child has become an annual mission for our family, beginning every January. With so many to choose from at all price ranges, and with some applications as long as a college application, it can …

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Do You Deal With Bullies?

From the perspective of a parent, identifying bullying behavior can be tough. But once you do, then what?

Welcome to Moms Talk, where our Moms Council of experts and smart moms takes your questions, gives advice and shares solutions. We invite you and your circle of friends to help build a community of support for mothers and their families right here in Maplewood-Brentwood. So, grab a cup of coffee and settle in as we start the conversation today with the question: How do you deal with bullies? The Moms Council offers responses below, and we encourage you to jump in with your experiences, too. Denise Lee Dealing with bullying is tough — really tough.  My natural response with my kids is to go into hyper-protective-mom-mode with sonic speed. But my natural response may not help the situation and may in fact exacerbate it. So I have to navigate…

Katrina Sommer

4:56 pm on Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Bullies are everywhere, but that does not mean their behavior should be tolerated. When we were growing up it was easy to spot (and avoid) bullies, but today our children deal with "faceless" bullies on-line. Bullies get to hide behind a screen name and don't have to actually face the people they intimidate or tease. Parents and teachers need to have candid discussions with their children and …   more ›

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Moms Talk Q&A: How Do On-the-Go Families Make Time For Dinner?

How do you throw a decent dinner together mid-week between homework, sports and other activities?

Moms Talk Q&A is a new feature on Maplewood-Brentwood Patch that is part of a new initiative to reach out to moms and families. We invite you and your circle of friends to help build a community of support for mothers and their families right here in Maplewood-Brentwood. Our Moms Council of experts and smart moms takes your questions, gives advice and shares solutions. Moms, dads, grandparents and the diverse families who make up our community will have a new resource for questions about issues ranging from snow days to teen pregnancies. And if you have a question for the Moms Council, please leave it in the comments or reach out to them individually. But the conversation doesn't stop there—please share your own stories too. So, grab a cup…

Katrina Sommer

3:33 pm on Friday, February 18, 2011

Even though Whole Foods can get expensive, they have some reasonably priced dinner specials on different days of the week ranging from rotisserie chickens to paninis. It is a great way to eat affordable healthy (and delicious) meals for busy families. When I was pregnant my husband was left to do all of the shopping (I couldn't stand to be around food) and it was a foolproof way to make sure we …   more ›

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